"Kiss Tomorrow Goodbye" by Luke Bryan is about breaking up and I'm not gonna lie, break up sex as well. I know this blog has had a lot of relationship related songs but hey, it's relate-able and that's country music for you.
Moving on, I agree with this song and how they decided to break up because they no longer had an emotional connection, only a physical one.
However, is ending a relationship with the only thing you have in common (sex) a healthy way to end it? I feel that in today's society that physical connection and its consequences are taken much too lightly. Not only by youths, but young adults and adults as well.
We are exposed to the casual occurrence of a one night stand or "fuck buddy" as it is crudely put for a reoccurring partner, by the media, television shows as well as movies and magazines. These relationships are no longer tabooed but accepted by society and I dont think they should be.
I'm not saying that you should never become physical with someone but i think that you should be cautious of which people you choose to become that personal and vulnerable with. You do not know if this person is putting you at a health risk or just crazy.
Take a note from criminal minds people, anything can happen! So use protection and take this seriously. This is an easy way to protect yourself but also to respect your own body and not conform to this new social norm. Just because you're going into your first year of university, or to a bar etc does not mean that you have to go home with someone. However, if you do a) you got game, congratulations b) just be safe and use your brain. If they have crazy eyes, just run away.
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