"Stupid Boy" by Keith Urban is about a girl who is a force of nature, one to remember. She falls in love with a boy and "laid her heart and soul right in [his] hands" but he "stole her every dream and crushed her plans".
This song is about a boy who let his need to be right cloud his judgement which ultimately led to his dream girl leaving him. After she is gone the boy realizes that "nobody's ever gonna love me like she loved me".
Very true to the saying "You don't know what you've got until it's gone" eh?
To me this song is about appreciating the person you are with and not taking for granted the wonderful things that you share.
Also, like many young girls in love the girl in this song began to change herself to fit with who the guy wanted her to be.
I think that this is a huge problem within young relationships. It is difficult for young adults to be in a relationship with someone else and be there to support, advise and care for them when they cannot even do that for themselves yet.
Can you truly define it as a relationship if your dates consist of hand holding and getting your parents to drive you to the movies? Are those actual connections with people or just excess stress and drama for young teens at a vulnerable age?
As most of you reading this are no longer a young teen and have probably had a relationship or two before, do you believe that you can truly be there for someone else if you haven't had enough time to discover who you are?
Are you more likely to mature and grow into yourself or conform into the person you think your boy/girl friend wants you to be?
You're so right about teen dating.
ReplyDeleteThere's a quote I like and it's "You can't love and understand anyone else until you can love and understand yourself." I think I can up with that wording but I'm sure someone has the same idea somewhere out there.
And it's kind of illogocal to think that being with someone makes YOU complete.
You should already be complete and so should they and you two act as a unit helping each other not 'as one'.